Thursday, January 28, 2010

Funny Day.. LOL:)

Today, as usual went for lecture.. replacement for International Finance. Got the first joke of the day by Mr. Tee. He said, we have been subsidized by IMF for more than twenty years and IMF here stands for Income from Mother n Father.. lol.. yet true n meaningful.. haha

Then, went back in the afternoon.. had a chat via msn with kent.. 38 as usual.. and then went for the UTAR Disaster Rehabilitation Team meeting.. didn't know actually kent was there and lied to me before that.. haha . I guess the team should be called UTAR 38 Disaster Team.. with a usual funny and 38 year 3 sem 3 students namely: peini, steven, me, kent, chee boon, n liyi.. i wonder what will our juniors feel when they saw us so crazy there.. hahaha.. and i'm extremely happy after being firm not to be elected to become secretary!! hehe..

Then, later went for class gathering.. thought to celebrate william's birthday.. but in the end celebrated 4 persons including me.. (actually jackie should be here too but she can't make it).. lol.. surprised and my it's way too early for me.. haha.. anyway appreciate my class mates alot.. happy birthday to all jan n feb babies.. may all our wishes come true ya..

This reminds me of a song: Lady Antebellum and Jim Brickman-- Never Alone.. its about friendship.. in our life it is hard to find frens like that.. who can share the same interest with you or appreciate your existence as part of their life..they really are frens worth having.. and definitely mean more than gold.. good luck to all! =)

Friday, January 15, 2010

Knowing...

过年风又在吹了,阵阵凉意,和热播的新年歌,都在提醒我们,就快过年了!!

但是,我心里,就是提不起劲来。农历十二月,仙佛很早说过了,我们可能会失去外婆。。
外婆一把年纪,老了却要卧病在床,心里想了就很难过。 每一次去探望她老人家时,虽然她都能认得我,却不能说话。。 看到她那样,鼻子总会酸酸的。从2000 年开始,我就一直经历失去亲人的滋味,葬礼也至少四次了。生离死别,本就是人生的经历, 但是想到可能即将要失去外婆,我心里还是会揪成一团。踏入农历十二月,心里总要有最坏的准备。外婆可能会离开,但是换一个角度,这对她来说也是一种解脱, 不用再继续受苦。

这几天,家里发生了不愉快的事。干妈替我和弟弟在新的一年祈福,拜文昌,顺便看看今年的运程。 我还算顺利,但是弟弟就不好了。他交了女朋友,无心向学,师父说他不能胡乱和女友发生关系,不然运势就会转低。妈和干妈知道了,都很担心,妈发现他的房间藏了女友的私密物品,弟弟知道东窗事发,就乱发脾气, 搞得家里又是一片糟。 我又开始担心爸妈了。 爸妈身体不好,再气下去会急出病来。其实,我真的不敢开口。 这秘密我早就发现了,我是从他的MSN谈话记录中发现他和女友的谈话。字里行句间发现他俩用了非常猥亵的字眼,直觉告诉我,他俩做了不该做的事。我心里不知该怎么办,一方面想告诉爸妈,一方面又怕会引起弟弟的激烈反应,搞得家里鸡犬不宁。我真的不知该怎么办。现在干妈要去找那女孩,要是让弟弟知道了,肯定又是一番吵闹,我真的不想他再错下去,但是爸妈这样也会担心,我该怎么做呢?心里很乱,希望仙佛慈悲,让事情拨转,有个解决方案。

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

A friend In Need is A friend Indeed..

Last Thursday,I went to kampar campus with my thesis mates.. to do our thesis interview.. for qualitative data. Right after our dinner, I got news from my fren that the results are out for last sem. We were so nervous that we rushed into a Cyber cafe to check our results. Sigh we cant get through becoz the server of utar is jammed immediately.

So, me and peini, went home without knowing our results and butterflies are in my stomach all the way.. Once I've reached, settled down and start msn-ing again. Then, he called me all of a sudden. He sent me something.. it is an application file.. something which will do for my pendrive. I remembered I told him two days ago that my pendrive was infected by a kind of virus that will hide all my word files one by one. My proposal files are hidden.. and i was trying to find a way out to solve it becoz it is very very important as it has hidden my latest proposal.. if i cant solve it, me and peini have to do it the 3rd time..

He's being very helpful by teaching me all sorts of methods to recover the files but unfortunately cant. I also went to uni to try it but failed too.. I was about to give up and seek help from the ICT department one day then he sent me this app file. Without high hope, I run it on my pendrive.. and bless me, it worked!! the files were successfully recovered! I was so happy.. then that night.. I shared my problems with him.. bout my results.. becoz the server was stil jammed and my frens got quite bad results which made me more nervous.. but he tried to comfort me and even sent me a picture on confidence that he cut n paste in paint on his own. I was really touched by his help. He joked around with me.. although having busy thesis and when I doubt about my problems.. he was so firm with me he said it wont happen..

The next day.. things really turned out better.. my results were ok.. satisfied and my lost document holder was found.. and best of all the files are all backed up and recovered. He purposely helped me to find a solution which I felt really grateful about that.. all i can say is he is a very good friend.. I appreciate him alot..if not becoz of him.. probably my files arent recovered now.. and I will spend the night with all sorts of nonsense feelings.. Thank you so much.. dear CB.. you are really a true fren.. I'm glad that i've met you..=)

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Strangers on My Journey Home..

For four years I've been studying at KL and three years mainly at sg long.. I have been traveling every week to and fro from sbn to sg long. I usually will travel by bus and train... which will bring me back to my home sweet home...

But, a strange thing is.. i always meet with some strangers who are really good people.. I actually aimed to have a good deed everyday and I've managed to do that when taking public transport. I've lost count how many times i have given my seat to a pregnant lady, old ppl, children or handicapped ones.. they always thank me and some will ask me to sit back when there is a place.. well, it can be embarrassing sometimes when i've given my seat and suddenly i tripped and nearly fell becoz the bus driver drove too fast and unstable.. in the end, the old lady gave me back my seat.. sometimes, i stood up, and the person doesnt want my seat.. especially children.. so in the end i just sat back with pairs of eyes staring at me.. hehe but this did not stop me from doing it all the time im in a public transport.. i've managed to bring out this ethicalness in my frens too.. and it really motivates me to do more..

Well, when im waiting for a train or sitting in it, i will normally listen to my mp3 or read Reader's Digest or when exams are near, i will read my exam notes..so there's once when i was waiting for a delayed train at the serdang station, a man, in his 50s, stood beside me and saw me reading my notes. So he just asked me what am i reading... i was just basically flipping thru becoz my exam is two weeks away. Then he probed on the friendly talk and knew im pursuing my accounting course. Then he suggested me to take CIMA as a professional qualification. Then he talked and explained his job scope to me. He is an engineer but also a financial analyst for his company (part time i guess). He knows how to analyze financial statements and can tell out the performance of a company. He explained many things i've come across in my studies and he even talked alot to me from the minute we boarded a train until he got down at his station. In the end he wished me luck and asked me to consider that career path. I was totally unexpected that this kind of situation happens to me. Somebody out there, standing, giving u some good advice and you are just a stranger...

And today, as usual 1 Jan 2010, a new year, which brings some good luck. An indian woman boarded the bus. She is very old, and couldn't walk that fast. The places are quite occupied and i have an empty seat beside me. She came and i smiled to her, gladfully made space for her to sit. Then, half way down the road, she asked me for a phone call. She wanted to call her daughter to pick her up at an Indian temple. The funny thing is, she cant hear clearly on the phone, so i basically helped her to call and answer. Then, after that, she said thank you to me and lovingly touched my cheek and head, giving me a blessing for the new year. I really appreciate that very much.

Well, sometimes i think that in our journey of life, we will meet different people at different situations. I sincerely think that God has sent me these angels to let me learn more on the things in life. I'm really grateful that God has shown me this, the good side of human. Life is sometimes filled with pleasant surprises and Im grateful that i've learnt its lesson through it.